I will start by saying that I AM soliciting opinions here. Feel free to chime in. This is a topic we've been mulling over and I am pretty sure which direction we will go but at the same time I want to make sure we've thoroughly considered it.
We're on day 7 of our FET cycle. I am taking my meds and plodding along waiting. We're getting closer to decision time. The big decision is how many embryo's to transfer... one or two. We're leaning towards one. We don't love the idea of another twin set and all of the issues that come along with having twins. We would love to opportunity to parent one singleton. I think it's obvious why one would be a smart option. The doctor told us that based on her experience we'd probably have a 50/50 chance with 1 embryo.
Here's the other side of that coin. According to our clinics research we have a 39% of becoming pregnant and that is based off of data with the average number of embryo's transferred at 3.1. The twin rate is about 20%. Because the expense and stress and time involved is so high you have to consider transferring two to make it "worth our while". As much as I'd love to have a singleton I would also love to not have to go through this process again.
So feel free to give your opinions!